The rate of divorce in
our society today is becoming alarming and it is best to learn how best to keep
these young “witchy” creatures from your “hard-earned husband”. Lol. So, how
best can you keep them very far away from your beloved hubby especially if you
are having issues with your husband?
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Separate your husband from his fault(s)
It is not an easy thing to do, but while dealing with whatever
hurt your husband might have caused you, do not forget that he is your husband,
nothing is gonna change that fact. Don’t
throw away the baby with the bath water. He remains your husband and even
while dealing with the issues, you should be the sweet woman you have always
been.
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Don’t give room for other people to come in
No matter what the issue is, don’t leave him to himself. Do not
refuse to do for him all the things you would do if not for the issue in
question. The reason is this; leaving him to himself will only make him learn how to
do things without you, and you don’t wanna try this considering the fact that
so many girls out there are ready to pamper his faults.
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Talk but don’t nag
Women tend to get so used to body language that they forget verbal
language. You should talk to your husband and be willing to make things work.Do
not just sit down and react on the things he is not doing well. See and observe
well enough for you to know what might be going wrong. Sometimes, women act
over things that do not exist. Be the woman who builds her home and not the one
who destroys it with her own hands.
· Don't leave your home
Leaving your home at any time at all is very detrimental to your relationship. No matter how bad it gets, do not, DO NOT, leave your home. if there are already single ladies "hanging outside" your marriage, your exit is just an invitation for them to come in and you sure know who's gonna be sorry at the end. Sit down and build your home!
Learn to live a life of trust
It is very expedient for couples to love and trust each other. Love
is not just enough though, trust makes the relationship very healthy. Understand
your spouse, know his flaws and trust him accordingly. However, if in doubt,
handle issues tactically.
They should also be patient, as this is very important in any relationship..
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