Society pressurizes one into
doing a lot of things and ladies are not left out of this pressure, if at all
they do not receive the most of it. However, there are so many wrong notions
that are associated with marriage that should be done away with especially in
this age, time and era.:
All men are the same
If all men were to be the same,
the world would be such a wonderful and beautiful place. Well, before you go on
to assume and conclude that all men are the same, examine all the men in your
family; do you see them as vile and unreasonable people? Well, do you think your
father is also a bad person? It is just important to note that all men cannot
be the same. There is someone out there for you. There is someone who is
different from all the men you have met. Remember that you haven’t met all the
men in the whole world. Stay positive!
Marrying someone just because “it’s too late”
There is never a time that is too
late for you to be truly happy in life. The high rate of divorce today is
simply because ladies jump into marriages without considering the persons they
are getting married to and also because society makes them feel like it’s a do
or die affair at some point in their life. It’s much better to take your time so that you do not make
choices that you are gonna regret sooner or later. Love is worth waiting for.
A lady has to impress a man
Far as this fallacy has gone, it
has also destroyed the mindset of many young ladies today. Really, a man who is
really interested in you will not need you to live all your life impressing
him. He isn’t gonna play god with your life and watch you run up a mountain and
back just to impress him. When a man loves you, even in your flaws and
imperfections, he is in love with you and nothing changes that.