5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD CHECK YOUR MAN'S PHONE

So i have heard it countless times that ladies should stay away from a man's phone if they really want to be happy. I do not know what the people who make these assertions think but i really do beg to differ. For a man i love, i will search your soul, not just your phone.

I was further shocked when my friend, E_e (don't wanna mention her name) said "If you wanna be happy, stay away from a man's phone". lol

So, here are reasons why you should surf his phone, without fear!

1. If he's for real, he has nothing to hide

The more we agree that a partner's phone shouldn't be surfed, the more reasons we give to our partners to be private and keep secrets to themselves. If a man is really into you, then he should have nothing to hide. There shouldn't be anything that will hurt you in his phone. If he won't hurt you by any act, whatsoever, then there shouldn't be any reason why you should be banned from accessing some parts of his life, including his phone. For a serious relationship, there should be no restriction. it's not an open relationship.


2. It saves your time

Sometimes, you can get to know a lot about a man's life by going through his cell phone. You shouldn't be a CIA of NPF agent. What's important is that, if he just wants to play around or mess with your life, you will get a hint from either a few or all of his conversations, pictures, videos, audios, etc, and so many other things in his mobile. I know that a few heartbreaks have been avoided because these relationships never even took place in the first place. Imagine a guy telling you all the sweet words in the world and he said same things to another girl on a chat five minutes ago. Sweetheart, knowing this saves your time. get it!


3. Knowledge does not kill

It is much better to find out information, as much as you can, from your man's mobile device in a way that you get to understand his person, than to find this out in a shocking way. In fact, going through your man's phone makes you know this person more and better.


4. It makes you truly happy

You are gonna find yourself happy, that's if you find out that the guy is for real, or even otherwise. Except for guys who are pros in deception, surfing a man's device and getting to know about most of his mobile engagements gives you some kinda joy, making you know fully well that you know what he's about. Imagine yourself being in love with someone and you do not know what his phone even looks like! Tell yourself the truth, there's so much you yet don't know about him. These are the kinds of relationships that end up with the man saving telephone numbers as "edible catering". lol. In fact, surfing his phone alerts you of any new friendship. We can't be sharing men in this economic recession. lol

5. It defines the relationship

 Trust me, a man who truly loves you will not involve you in every part of his life and exclude you from his phone. It tells how much the man is willing to be "naked" for you. You know you are a sidechick or a "passerby" when you touch his phone and he's like "give me my phone".





Inasmuch as going through your man's phone shouldn't be a tabboo, it shouldn't be a routine. Bear in mind that not all relationships are gonna work; so don't just become a CIA agent throughout the entire relationship. summary: You shouldn't be banned from "touching" your man's phone, that's if he's your man. lol

Lemme know what you think!
My name na Angel Goldy, i just want make #commonsense lol 

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7 YOUNG OUTSTANDING NIGERIAN ENTERPRENEURS TO LOOK OUT FOR

Abiodun Abiola - Nanaclassique & noireetmagnifique

Beautiful Abiola stands out as a fashionista and the brain behind Nanaclassique and she is the CEO of noireetmagnifique. She's been in the business of styling "slaying" Nigerians and Nigerian celebrities are not excluded. Nanaclassique is known for her beautiful designs and these can be confirmed via some of her works pictured below:

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 Richard Bale - Green Pasture

Richard Bale, who prefers to be called Green Pasture started making professional footwear in 2013 after his National Youth Service and in the past three years, one can say that Green Pasture is making impact. See some of his works below:

Dolapo Habiba M. - Mix & Shakes Beeba

 Dolapo Mubarak, the young and enterprising CEO of Mix & Shakes by Beeba has carved a niche for herself in the area of making cocktails and other drinks and she does this with class as well whilst giving her clients the best they can ever ask for in this regard. Some of her products and services are pictured below:

Godiya Dangana  (Gdia) - Sense of Decency

Young and delectable Singer, Godiya, who is popularly known as Gdia has made her mark not only in the music industry but also in fashion. The young and enterprising lady is the CEO and brain behind "Sense of decency", a fashion outfit that has made its mark in styling and making beautiful clothes, shoes, throw pillows, bags, souvenirs and other allied products. Find pictures of some of her works below:

Emmanuel Akinpelu - CEO, Studio 92

Young and energetic Emmanuel is the brain behind Studio 92 photography and has endlessly put finesse to the art of capturing moments in the lives of his clients. The just-graduated student of the prestigious Samuel Adegboyega University, Edo State does not only capture moments in amazing ways but goes further to create graphics in the most amazing way possible. Here are some of his captured moments:

Amara Adichie- CEO - Ciatajolie

Amara, who is better known for her brand name, Ciatajolie stands out amongst make-up artists in the country. Not only does she carry out make-up but she also knows the art well enough to transform her clients in as many forms as they want. Her pictures speak better for her:

Stella Saba - CEO, Giftestelle

 Saba, as she is fondly called, is an Abuja-based hair stylist who makes wigs, styles hair and is   proficient in keeping and assisting in the growth of natural hair using hers as a proof of her handiwork. 

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IF YOUR CHURCH DOESN'T TEACH YOU THESE, YOU SHOULD LEAVE IT!

There are many fallacies and notions that Christians carry about church that should be either done away with or redirected. Some of these are discussed below:

You are the church

Most of the issues and controversies that surround churches nowadays are centered on the fact that the church is misrepresented. Everyone assumes that church is that beautiful building that can be entered into or accessed per time. Well, the church is not a place, it is a person, and you, at that. The church is the coming together of Christians; Christians are the body of Christ and as such, they form the church. Most importantly, if Christ has chosen to dwell in humans, mortal bodies, then it is wrong and would be a misappropriation to respect a building more than the entities in which Christ himself has chosen to dwell.

Church should accommodate all kinds of people

It is very wrong to assume that church is meant to have all the good people on earth. Nay! The church is like a clinic, you go there to get better, you go there in order to improve. The church is meant to accommodate different kinds of people; people who are with or without good character. There

is no better place for a sick person than the hospital, in the same vein, there is no better place for anyone else in the world than the gathering of Christians. So when you see sinners, evil people, bad people (in your own judgment, that is), going to church, to fellowship, it is going to be worthless for you to attempt to cast your "judgment stone" on them. They are coming to get better.

God loves sinners, He hates their sins

Just like a popular Nigerian proverb says: "Do not throw away a child with the bath water" . God is interested in sinners, for which reason he sent His only son to die for their sins. Therefore, inasmuch as God hates sins, He loves the sinners and he wishes so very much that they will turn from their wicked ways and embrace God. (Romans 10:13)

It's not your job to judge

People nowadays have formed the habit of judging Christians with their own standards and supposed "church standards". Well, your church should teach you not to do this, as God is not hiring. He is the righteous judge and your church standards are not the ultimate yardstick for measuring someone's righteousness. It is not uncommon to see People being rated as Christians because they follow their church doctrines, which most of the times includes their modes of dressing, talking, etc. Most of them follow doctrines and abandon the gospel of Christ, which in itself is not right.

The most expensive gift you can give to God is not money

So many "money seeking" churches (if they are fit to be so-called) have in their quest for more money forgotten about the most important assignment for which they are called. Your church should teach you to know that money is not the best thing you can give to God; your life is. Many "pastors" will collect money from you to "support the work of God" without knowing whether or not you have Given your life to Christ. The best and most expensive thing you can give to God is  not your money or church offering, it is not even your tithe and offerings. Your life goes first. Men may be interested in your money and possessions but God wants your life. He gave His only begotten son up so that He can have your life, not your money! Your life! You first, before all you have gets to Him, He wants you! You! You!Your life is more important to God than your money. Don't let any one trick you to give up all you have to them when you do not yet have a good relationship with God. God first. He is not hungry, he needs your life, not your money. God is not a beggar, don't attempt to give Him money if he doesn't have your life. (Matthew 6:33).

Everybody is meant to "preach" the gospel

It is erroneous to believe that preaching the gospel is exclusively the work of Pastors. God has commissioned Christians to go and preach the gospel. It is our responsibility as Christians to preach the Gospel, to go into all the ends of the earth, to spread the gospel! God doesn't desire for sinners to perish, He wants them to come into light, knowledge. Therefore, relying on only the Pastors to do this would be inimical to the spread of Christendom. We are meant to show forth his power, his works, his glory, to the Ends of the Earth!

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DO WE NEED MORE PROPHETS IN NIGERIA?

There were days when prophets were revered much more than they are right now in this dispensation. Prophets in the Bible days were seen and regarded as heaven's mouthpiece and their messages were undoubtable. However, this age and time is littered with so many prophets who have left many unanswered questions in the mouths and hearts of desperate miracle-seeking Christians. Let's consider these disparities between the Prophets of old and the prophets we have now:

Do we still need prophets to tell us the sources of our problems?

Rather than these prophets tell us who is behind our troubles, isn't it just better that they just eliminate the problems? Most of these prophets have caused not a little stir in families by apportioning blames on innocent family members who would stop at nothing in proving their innocence, which eventually leads to an endless string of rancor and bickering in the families. Remember that the bible states that "we wrestle NOT AGAINST FLESH AND BLOOD..."

Do we need analysis or solution?

These endtime prophets come around and analyse the situations that people find themselves in. They even go as far as describing clothes, offices, etc, especially when they are not connected to the victim's solution. In the Bible days, Jesus did not go about with drama, he healed some people without even asking them questions about themselves or their families. :HE WENT ABOUT DOING GOOD!

Must every prophet collect money? 

There are lots of stories in the Bible about how Jesus fed lots of people and how most of these miracles were duplicated by the apostles of old without the apostles demanding for money in exchange. Nowadays, to have access to a prophet, one would need to pay lots of fees, sow seeds, and do so many things just to impress the prophet. How much do we pay to see God? we merely go on our knees, or even lie in prayers to God and we have access to him. this act of extorting money from people is really wrong and a lot should be done about it. Prophets ought to stop collecting money from people in order to prophesy to them. Jesus raised Lazarus from death. He merely spoke to the corpse and that did it!

Should prophets reveal any information at all to the public?

Rather than bring out a church member before a congregation and explain all her problems to the congregation, isn't is just better that the prophet delivers solution to such a person in need of solution? if these Prophets are following Jesus, they will realise that Jesus never had the time to describe or magnify people's problems, either in public or in secret. All he always did was to speak the word!

Prophets now compete with native doctors/herbalists

it is not uncommon to see prophets requesting for unimaginable things for a so called programme/revival. In a so called church programme, you see prophet asking you to come with cutlass, mirror, etc. Brother biko, the battle is not a physical one o.  it was recorded severally in the Bible that Jesus seeing the multitude had compassion on them. He didn't just ask them to go and bring cutlass or physical weapons. if a prophet has been endued with power enough to see beyond the physical, then he needs not request for your physical weapons in physical war.

Prophets should decrease in number and not increase in Nigeria

Despite the many prophets in Nigeria, the Chibok girls were missing for a very long time and while prophets were prophesying about people's clothes and destinies, a nation was looking for over 200 people. Money has gotten missing in this same country, yet EFCC has always been called upon to trace such funds. if a prophet can see well enough to know who is behind a person's failure, such a prophet should be able to prophesy to a nation. God told Jeremiah in Jeremiah 1; ... i have formed you and ordained you a prophet to the NATION. If things are still getting missing in a country where there are countless prophets, i think such prophets need to get other jobs to do. Am i alone in this?

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